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Hypotheticals


The subject line of the email read: This is a weird hypothetical question.
HYPOTHETICALLY, if the family took a 12 day China River cruise this November over Thanksgiving, would that be something a person might be interested in?  The person (who is of the female persuasion) would have to share a cabin with one of their male cousins.  (twin beds, obviously)
Any thoughts?
I imagined each of my three cousins as a cabin-mate.  I frowned at my account balances.  I thought about my plans to visit friends in New York that I haven't seen in years.  I wondered how much I would hate working Christmas week almost entirely alone in the office while everyone else was on vacation.  I almost decided not to go.

And then I remembered the family Thanksgivings we used to have - trying to fit everyone into my grandparent's house which was decorated with Chinese silk paintings and knick-knacks.  Friday always included a movie and Chinese meal.  Sometimes Grandpa would talk about growing up in China - how his adoptive mother made him eat slowly and politely and when he started working and sharing his lunches with fellow workmen, he had to learn to eat faster so he would get enough.

And I bought my ticket.

I'm not taking a computer (freedom!), but if I can beg borrow or steal one, I'll let you know where I am.  And how the cabin mate is working out.

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  1. StacieFriday, November 16, 2012

    Pictures, Pictures, Pictures!! I'm so glad you get to go, wish we could join you! And you painted a great picture of Thanksgiving, so miss those days!!! Enjoy, Stacie

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